It’s a little like dating. You have found your dream job or organization– but will they like you back, enough to hire you? If they reject you, does that make you a bad person or a failure? Putting yourself out there by networking, applying, and interviewing for jobs makes you very vulnerable to rejection, the … Continue reading
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Happy Mother’s Day: Now, Back to Work!
As a new mom, I understand the amazing challenges and joys of being a parent. As a career coach with 13+ years’ experience, I also have worked with many parents and others who took time off to raise a family, take care of an ill or aging family member, recover from an illness or injury, … Continue reading
Overcoming rejection: The Two Poisons That Destroy Your Job Search Chances
The Two Poisons That Destroy Your Job Search Chances There are two kinds of poison that can destroy someone’s job search, both stemming from your reaction to rejection. As most people know, the job search is filled with rejection. (In Richard Nelson Bolles’s classic book, What Color is Your Parachute, it’s described as “no no … Continue reading
A tale of two job-seekers
I recently spoke about my book Jobs That Matter at a major career networking event with over 400 participants, and made connections with probably 50 different people. I was struck by two of the people I met, both job-seekers but completely opposite in their attitudes. The first person, a woman who had years of experience … Continue reading
Overcoming the stigma of unemployment
Even though the recession has been going on since October 2008, there are still recruiters who make negative assumptions about candidates who are unemployed—especially those who have been unemployed for a year or more. Many top-quality candidates have been out of work for a long time in this economy, but how do you overcome the … Continue reading
What to say if you’re unemployed and get asked “what have you been doing?”
If you are job-seeking, whether due to layoffs or because you are a recent graduate, you are sure to encounter questions from networking contacts and interviewers (if you’re lucky enough to get interviews) about what you have been up to. Especially if it’s been a while since you were either employed or in school, you … Continue reading